According to the Oklahoma Department of Human Services Caregiver's Resource List, one out of every 3 persons will find themselves caring for an elderly parent, spouse or relative at some point in their life. 

Elder abuse happens within the family. In Oklahoma, there are an estimated 400,000 informal caregivers.  It can also happen in settings such as hospitals or nursing homes or in the community. Elder abuse is a serious problem in this country.

How do you know if you or someone you know is experiencing elder abuse?  Check out this list provided by the AARP and see if you or your elderly loved one show any of the signs.

Warning signs of Elder Abuse:

• Unexplained bruises or other injuries.
• Sudden change in behavior.
• Caregiver's refusal to allow visitors.
• Elder is extremely upset, withdrawn, unresponsive; other unusual behavior.
• Dehydration, malnutrition, untreated sores (bed sores), weight loss.
• Unattended health problems or lack of necessary aids, such as eyeglasses or dentures.
• Unsanitary living conditions (lice, soiled bedding).
• Inadequate clothing; no heat or running water.
• Unexplained bank withdrawals, unauthorized use of credit or ATM card, stolen or "misplaced" cards or checkbook.
• Checks written as a "loan" or "gift."
• Abrupt changes in a will or other documents.

What should you do if you suspect or are experiencing abuse?  The best thing to do in an emergency is to immediately call 911 or your local police.  If you haven't seen the elderly neighbor or relative, check on them.  Oklahoma's Adult Protective Services statewide abuse hotline can be reached toll-free at (800) 522-3511.  If the abuse you suspect is taking place in a nursing home or other type of institutional care facility, call the Oklahoma State Long-Term Care Ombudsman at (405) 521-6734